2009 Seimbas Lalu

Banyak yang berlaku dalam tahun 2009 ni..suka dan duka, semua ada.


Urusan Danish ke sekolah, the rest biasa2 jer bertugas di BPS.
Mandi sungai kat Sg Sendat, Ulu Yam


Terkejut dan sedih - dapat pekeliling pertukaran - lapur ke IKM KL (Buat rayuan tak nak pindah...hampeh)
BAKAT - perjumpaan dgn isteri PM - Datin Seri Jean
Danish mula buat perangai tak nak ke sekolah...tension!! Alasannya..tak best mcm Smart Reader dulu. Hadoi yai...Hari2 semua akan tension dgn Danish.


23/3/09 secara oficial nya melapor di IKM KL sebagai Ketua Jabatan Pengajian Am. Rasa hati amat berat sekali tapi dah arahan naik pangkat...tak dapek nak di tolong lai. Jadi den poi jo laaa...
Danish masih bermasalah tak nak ke sekolah..bila di siasat ole cikgunya..rupa2nya ada budak pompuan sgt suka kat Danish, somehow she made him feel intimidated..pas tu cikgu dia settlekan. TQ cikgu..now Danish dah ok :)!!


Still adjusting to the new designation..new environment,new frens, new responsibilities..no problem adjusting with humans, as I always fit in easily with anyone, anywhere. The totally new system(IKM) took me a
while to adapt with.


Quite busy at work place with the Team Pemantauan Anugerah Kualiti and all but everything went well.


Was called upon BPL(K) to write and edit IKM certificate and diploma modules. Enjoyed doing it..as always..me and modules are synonyms.


Nothing much..as usual at work..cuma start to kemas2 personal things sbb nak pasang partician/work station kat bilik nih..Habuk..habuk...
Shasha start kreja


Bulan penuh dgn penyakit!! IKM KL di tutup seminggu due to H1N1 (3- 7 Ogos 2009). A week after that I was sick , down with flue and sore throat and so were the rest of us at work.
Shida abis practical


Bulan posa! Setiap hari berbuka satu famili including F, Yan dan Fira.
Dalam bulan posa ni la adik ku di duga dgn dugaan yg sgt hebat! Allah saja yang mengetahui betapa merana dan sedihnya adik ku pd waktu itu...subhanallah! Mujur dugaan ini tak berlarutan lama...

Semasa raya di Koyan,

First raya memang Is tak ada..dia balik kemudian sket. Bila Issampai..seronok tgk mrk spent each moment together...kamiberamai-ramai pergi ke Kuala Medang, tangkap gambar Is di Homestay Kuala Medang..the next day semua pergi berkelah kat Lata Lembik..seronok tgk Is, Jaja, Iman and Sofi dan famili members yg lain mandisungai..malam sibul main bunga api..Is dan abang as usual mmg beli
bunga api byk giler...dorang main lg hebat dr bebudak tuh..

Birthday Shasha di Naili's

 Shasha dapat kretanya yg baru!!


Busy at work preparing for Graduasi IKM KL

Bersukaria di Genting Highlands


Graduasi Alin
Alin SPM
Sekolah cuti!!


Hari Keliarga PULNORd

                                                             Our family gathering- byk kali..

There are still many more happenings which need not to be mentioned here. Tahun 2009 adalah tahun yg byk mengajar dan menyedarkan fr me. All of them hv turned me into a wiser and more religious person. Will try to avoid making the same mistakes..will improve on the existing qualities. Will try to plan a better and prosperous year starting tomorrow!!

Spunky Sally

The Secret

I have learned there is little I can do
in my life that will make me truly happy
I must depend on God to make
me happy and to meet my needs.
When a need arises in my life,
I have to trust God to supply
according to HIS riches.
I have learned most of the time
I don't need half of what I think I do.
He has never let me down.
Since I learned that ' Secret ', I am happy.

Spunky Sally

Apa gunanya peraturan?

Apa gunanya ada peraturan
apabila peraturan diubah mengikut keperluan semasa?

Apa gunanya ada peraturan
apabila peraturan hanya memihak kepada pihak-pihak tertentu?

Apa gunanya ada peraturan
apabila peraturan hanya menyususahkan?

Apa gunanya ada peraturan
apabila orang tidak menghiraukannya?

Apa gunanya ada peraturan
apabila tidak ada penguatkuasaan?

Apa gunanya ada peraturan
apabila tiada tindakan keatasa yg melanggar peraturan?

Apa gunanya ada peraturan....??

Spunky Sally
Today, Dec 2nd 2009, IKM KL is hosting Hari Inovasi 2009.
The event starts at 10.00 a.m.
Ada ceramah dan ada anugerah pada para pengajar dan staf.
Mata dah layu dah ni..tu belum mkn ubat sakit kepala yg
doctor bg semalam..kalau mkn mmg comporm tido!!
Lepas majlis ni, I intend to go home and rest fo a little while
and petang ni driver akan amik I and Danish and off we go to join
Papa di Sepang. Really looking fwd to a relaxing holiday - only the three
of us, Shima, Shida and Shasha tak dpt join. Shima and Shasha kejer..Shida nak gi daftar MMU, nak sambung buat masters. So I guess tunggu family day PULNORD
kita semua ada sekali.

Pain pain go away

Pain pain go away!
Please don’t come back another day.

Wonder if he cares about me.
Wonder if this is supposed to be.

Tears falling down my face,
oh how I wish no one could trace.

Feel thrown into a deep, dark hole,
I was lost couldn’t find my soul.

How can he stand there and break my heart
How did he allow us to grow so far apart?

How could he builds happiness out of my grief,
I was choked with disbelief.

Pricking pain right in my chest,
I’ve lost my senses don’t know what’s best.

My dreams of us being happy is never coming true
all I am feeling now is down and blue.

But then...
You came back

Pain pain go away,
Cause he’s back and chose to stay.

There he stood thinking back in time,
where he loved me and he was mine.

He said..
“So sorry I did this to you,
I will not stop loving you that much is true,
I realize I love you, I do, I do
For all I knew, I really need you..”

He said..
“Please darling give me a second chance..
To the love music we shall dance.
And let me offer you a warm embrace
and wipe out your tears flowing down your face.”

He said..
“Pain pain go away
I’ve learned my lesson through the hard way
leave us alone and do not stay.”

Spunky Sally

The Strength Of A True Love

How can there be pain in a place where there is so much joy? A loving relationship is the most awesome experience in the world. This is why it also holds the potential for so much sadness. There are so many things that can go wrong. We must remember... It's better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all!!!

How do I mend my broken heart?
My entire world has fallen apart.

How do I find hope in a brand new day,
when the one I love has turned away?

My mind overflows with memories of you,
of all that we've shared, all that we knew.

I long for your touch and your warm embrace,
the look in your eyes, the smile on your face.

My dreams are blown away by the breeze,
I wake and cry for all that I miss.

How do I mend my broken heart,
when my one true love and I are somewhat apart?

My heart knows to love and loves only you,
it won't let go, what do I do?

Our moments together remain fresh and new,
and I cherished them all more than you knew.

I love you my angel and always will,
I loved you then and I love you still.

No matter how crushed my heart has become,
I'll glue every pieces intact it becomes.

People criticize and i don't mind,
I'm just hanging on to what is mine.

Even though I don't really know what's in your heart,
I only need a little of yours for a new start,
With the strength of a true love I have in my heart,
I won't let anything..anybody mess with us till death do us apart.

Spunky Sally

A Husband...

A husband should be
Loyal and honest

A husband should be
Strong and protective

A husband should be
Loving and romantic

A husband should be
Patient and understanding

A husband should know
When enough is enough

A husband should know
When to fight and when to cry

A husband should know
all your goals and dreams

A husband should know
your strengths and well as your weaknesses

A husband needs to be a true man
A husband needs to love you unconditionally
A husband needs to know your heart is forever his

Even a storm came between us once upon a time
You didn’t say anything bad about me..
Coz there was hardly any, you said

You came to your senses
“ I’m so truly sorry dear…It’s me..not you..”

You begged for forgiveness
And I said yes..

You appreciate your wife
You chose us
You want to start all over again
And I said yes..

Because according to you…your wife is

Loyal and honest
Strong and protective
Loving and romantic
Patient and understanding
Know when enough is enough
When to fight and when to cry
Know all your goals and dreams
Know your strengths as well as your weaknesses

Your wife also..
Makes you feel like a true man
Loves you unconditionally
Lets you know that her heart is forever yours..

Dear husband..
I will forgive...but not sure if I am able to forget..
I'll let time handle that..

Your Wife

I Want To Say I Love You On Your Birthday!

Dear Shima...

I want to say I love you on your birthday,
Though my love for you is needless to say.
There are things I'd like to say
to you my princess on your special day:
I am forever thankful God sent you my way.

You’re my first born like I always say,
You’re so special in your own way.

Like a gift from up above,
you’ve showered me with joy, laughter and love.

I know many mountains we've had to climb
but I cherish every bit of it all the time.

Yes, we've endured our share of pain,
but together we have so much to gain.

Bigger mountains may lie ahead,
but together there is no hill we cannot tread.

So always remember my love for you,
and there is nothing together we cannot do.

I'll be here forever - my endless love for you
The person who would always remain in my heart…
that would be You.

Mama (4th Nov 2009)

Put On Your Thinking Cap

Sebelum bertindak atau membuat sesuatu keputusan...fikirkan semasak2nya..pros and cons..plus-minus-interesting, cause and effect. Guna pemikiran waras, jangan ikut kata perasaan dan kepentingan sendiri...kerana kalau ikut rasa..binasa, kalau ikut hati..mati. Tersilap perhitungan, tersilap percaturan...kesanya sangat meluas dan mendalam. Silapnya mungkin sebesar hama, tp akan timbul satu natijah after satu natijah..thingsbecome more complicated than u'd ever imagine..So, be in control of yourself...never be controlled by your desire!! (Ingatan pd diri sendiri dan rakan2 sumer)

Tipah Tertipu ke Tipah Penipu..??

Episod Satu

"Assalamualaikum..!!" bunyi suara lelaki memberi salam dari luar pagar.
"Sapa pulak"..berkata Lily dalam hati sambil mengecikan api dapur. Lily yang sedang memasak lauk kegemaran suaminya..sambal tumis udang petai..bergegas ke pintu depan.
"Walaikumsalam..!"jawab Lily sambil menguakkan daun pintu rumahnya lalu dilihatnya seorang lelaki berumur lewat 30an, berpakaian kemas dan bersongkok.
"Sapa eh? Tak besa tengok pun orang ni" bisik Lily dalam hati.
"Ya..cari siapa?"..sapa Lily.
"Puan Lily?" kata lelaki yang bersongkok yang berdiri di luar pagar.
"Ya saya.." jawab Lily sambil melangkah menuju ke pagar. Beberapa soalan berlegar-legar dalam kepalanya..siapa dan apa tujuan orang yang datang kerumahnya ketika itu.
"Saya dari Balai Islam..datang untuk menyerahkan surat Saman Cerai Mahkamah Syariah.Suami puan telah membuka fail penceraian terhadap puan dan puan dikehendaki hadir di Balai Islam pada 15 Oktober ni"jelas lelaki tersebut dengan nada yang sangat serba salah.

Lily benar-benar terkejut..jantungnya di rasakan terhenti,dunia menjadi gelap.Lutut tiba-tiba terasa lemah..rasa macam nak pengsan..lalu dia berpegang pada pagar rumahnya menahan rasa sedih yang tidak terbendung.Benarkah apa yang baru didengarinya atau pon ini satu mimpi ngeri?

"Saya harap puan faham, sekiranya ada apa-apa persoalan, sila telefon number yang tertera di dalam surat itu ya puan. Saya minta diri dulu..assalamualaikum" ujar lelaki tersebut.

"Walaikumsalam" jawab Lily yang masih berpegang pada pagar rumahnya.
Perlahan-lahan digagahnya berjalan menuju kedalam rumahnya walau pun seluruh tubuhnya menggigil,sambil airmata bercucuran turun tak dapat ditahan-tahan lagi.Dadanya seakan ditusuk sembilu..sakit macam nak pecah dada!! Tak tahu apa yang harus dilakukanya..macam anak ayam yang kehilangan ibunya.

"Nape Ma?" tanya Aqil yang terpinga-pinga kebingungan melihat mamanya menangis teresak-esak.

Lily segera mengesat airmatanya..belum bersedia mengatakan apa yang sebenarnya berlaku kepada anak-anaknya.

"Aqil tolong ambilkan handphone mama kat atas..cepat!"

Lily cuba menalipon Iz (Faiz) , suaminya, tapi talian telefon Iz sengaja ditutup.
Seluruh badan terasa berdenyut...apa yang harus dibuatnya sekarang?

"Call akak?" fikir Lily..satu-satunya tempat mengadu nasib...tapi akak jauh!!
Lily tekad..terus menelefon kakanya.
Lily terus menguncikan diri dalam bilik..tak mahu anak-anaknya dengar perbualanya dengan kakanya.

"Assalamualaikum. Sis..what's up?" kata akak seperti biasa ceria menerima panggilan adiknya.

"Akak!!" Lily terus menangis tak dapat bercakap.
"Hei..nape ni?" jwb akak suspen.
"Lily..! hei nape ni? Talk to me" kata akak makin suspen.
"Faiz has filed a divorce against me!!" ujar Lily dalam keteresakan .

Akak terdiam tak terkata kerana setahunya Faiz dan Lily adalah pasangan yang sangat 'loving'.Mereka berkahwin atas dasar cinta dan kasih sayang yang sangat mendalam. Pasangan yang sangat bahagia..suami yang sangat penyayang dan bertanggungjawab, isteri yang baik dan cekap menguruskan makan-pakai suaminya serta anak-anaknya. Hasil kasih sayang diantara mereka, Allah telah mengurniakan sepasang cahaya mata yang baik dan pintar. Tak mungkin tetiba Iz nak ceraikan Lily? Bagi orang yang kenal siapa Iz..pasti mereka setuju jika dikatakan Iz will be the last male on earth yang akan buat sesuatu macam ni.

Dalam kecelaruan itu..akak cuba memikirkan apakah kemungkinan sebabnya semua musibah ini berlaku.

"Is there someonelse?"..tanya akak meminta penjelasan dari Lily...tapi dalam hatinya berharap..'please God..I hope not'

"Not sure la kak..may be.." jawab Lily yang makin tak keruan.

Vulnerable Hearts Torn Apart

Iman dan Sofie sayang...

Aunty tahu betapa hebat dugaan yg Allah turunkan pada kalian berdua..
pada umur yang masih kanak-kanak lagi.

Aunty hanya bole berdoa dan berdoa dan berdoa agar anak-anak aunty
diberi kekuatan untuk menempuh hidup ini.

Aunty tahu perjalanan korang masih jauh...
masa depan korang masih kabur...
kenapa semua ni harus berlaku?
korang tak bersalah...
tak pasal pasal..korang jadi mangsa
mangsa keadaan..

Tapi percayalah cakap aunty..
Aunty dan Babu Ji tak akan biarkan Iman dan Sofie
ketandusan kaseh sayang
Aunty dan Babu Ji dgn tangan terbuka
rela jadi tempat korang menumpang kasih

We promise..we will be the most comfortable blanket
u'll need to keep u warm during winter..

we promise..we will be the most comfortable shoulder
for u to cry on

we promise..we will be the light in ur rooms when u r awaken
from ur sleep by a nightmare

we promise.. we will always keep u feeling safe and sound
all the time

Whatever happens....we will shower u with lots of luv!


A Tribute to My Beloved Family

To be part of a family is to be in a relationship. There is an opportunity for a closeness and trust that cannot occur outside family. With this possibility for closeness is the possibility of hatred and estrangement. It is not easy to maintain positive relationships with those that we are naturally closest to. There are tensions that exist between family members that are not present in other relationships. Being in close proximity means that you know of persons great attributes as well as their faults. Maintaining family relationships is a tremendous challenge.

Dear Family...

When you've got a family like mine,
You definitely would not mind

They would be there to cheer for you,
All the way until you pull through

They make you feel good when you are blue
And whisper in your ear, I love you

They would teach you new things everyday
And help you find success in every way

They attend to your everyday needs
Whether it is buying pencils or beads

They assure you comfort wherever you are
Whether you are in a house or a car

They would not let obstacles keep you down
And create a smile from your frown

They teach you wrong from right
And encourage you to keep your dreams in sight

They wipe your tears away when you are sad
And calm you down when you get mad

Thank you family for all that you do
I don't know where I would be if it weren't for you...

The memories that are made are more precious than gold
from babies to weddings from young and to old

From grandparents to grandchildren and everyone in between
the many special relationships that are built
and could have never been foreseen

Thank you Allah
for my big family I will treasure through the good times and bad
the memories could not be measured

Thank you Allah
for birthdays, simple get-togethers and even the tears
for I pray that these blessings last many, many more years

To have a big family
can be a lot of work, not just play
but unfortunately... life is too short


KEBANYAKAN pelajar sekolah mula menagih dadah selepas terjebak dengan tabiat menghisap rokok

Apa la nak jadi dengan anak bangsa kita? Belajar tak tara mana...dah melibatkan diri dengan najis dadah. Macam ni ka bakal pemimpin kita yang akan datang? Eeee...menakutkan bila di fikir-fikir.

Sapa yang kita nak persalahkan disini? Parents? Guru? Senagai seorang ibu dan juga seorang guru, I strongly believe that this is the parents' absolute responsible. Anak kita, tentunya kita yang lahirkan dan besarkan..kita sudah semestinya inginkan yang terbaik buat anak-anak kita. So..jangan harapkan orang lain untuk mendidik, menanam sifat-sifat dan nilai-nilai yang murni kedalam anak2 kita. Perumpamaannya..macam kita tanam pokok, tak kan kita nak suruh jiran pulak yang siram dan bajakan pokok kita. Sendiri tanam..sendiri mau ingat. nak BELA anak memang senang...macam BELA haiwan ternakan jugak lah...siapkan tempat tinggal dan bagi makan hari-hari. Tapi dengan anak-anak kita, bukan cukup dengan hanya lahirkan dan BELA mereka hingga besar..tetapi kita sebagai parents perlu DIDIK supaya anak-anak ada pedoman dan nilai-nilai murni yang kita terapkan dari awal.

Ada juga yang sering menyalahkan pihak sekolah/guru. Memang tak patut!! Kita mula hantar anak kita ke sekolah waktu umur mereka 6 atau 7 tahun bukanya sejak lahir. Foundation atau asas yang kita beri pada anak-anak kita dalam tempoh 0 - 7 tahun tu...ada ka?...cukup ka? Tugas guru hanya memberi penekanan yang lebih kepada para pelajar. Sekiranya parents hanya pandai melahirkan zuriat tetapi nak mengharapkan guru untuk bertanggungjawab sepenuhnya untuk mendidik.....memang akan terhasil lah umat-umat seperti dalam gambar itu!! Nauzulillah...jauhkan dari keturunan ku...

Yang best lagi tu, ada parents yang merokok, tapi melarang anak-anak merokok!! Ini definitely bukan KEPIMPINAN MELALUI TAULADAN lansung!! Buat anak-anak ketawa kan kita lagi ada...dalam hati nanti mereka berkata "Dia merokok..tak bagi kita merokok kunun..PIRRRAH!!"
Kalau ini lah yang terjadi...memang tersepuk atas hidung sendiri la.

So, from the news today, 60% pelajar sekolah di Kelantan positif dadah. Mak ai..ramai tuuu!!
Mana kita nak dapat pemimpin yang berwibawa dan yang mempunyai nilai-nilai murni serta ciri-ciri KEISLAMAN yang sejati?

Renong-renongkan lah...adakah selama ini kita membela anak-anak kita atau kita mendidik anak-anak kita? Wallualam...

Cikgu Salina

Always There

I will always be here through thick and thin
You can come to me, I'll listen
I'm your friend, I won't push you away
When you need a hug, my arms are wide open
When you need to talk, I have an open ear
You are growing up and getting older
Know that I'm always here, I'm not going anywhere
Wherever you are, I'm there with you
You're in my heart and my prayers
Just know I'm here, coz I truly care
You're my sister, you mean so much
Don't want to see you hurt or cry
I'll wipe the tears and get rid of your fears
Want to see you grow old and achieve
Just believe, have faith
You can do anything
You're beautiful inside out
You're smart and very talented
You're many things, but most of all...
you're my sister
I believe in you and know that I'll never stop loving YOU.


To Whom It May Concern

She got up this morning,
sun shining through the blind,
she took a look in the mirror,
and something struck her mind.

You weren't there to see her wake,
she didn't see your smile,
hoping that this is only a fake,
that you've been absent all this while.

She went into work today,
kids running through the halls,
she look at plans for the day,
and it is sad when nobody calls.

She got in her car to go home today,
on the radio she heard a song,
it reminded her of you,
and how hurtful it is when you're gone.

She went out with friends tonight,
smiled and wore a brave face,
for all she really wants with all her might,
is to have u in this place.

She gets troubled by sadness and fear,
ones which won't disappear,
what's the point of all this?,
what's the point when you never appear.

She went to sleep that night,
tried so hard for the days ahead,
it gives her a slam of fright,
you're not there on your side of the bed.

She got up this morning,
sun shining through the blind,
she took a look in the mirror,
and something struck her mind.

You were there to see her wake,
and she could see your smile,
hoping that this is not a fake,
you're only absent for a while.

She closes her eyes and in the dark,
she hopes she'll see you again,
the only thing that troubles her,
is not being able to say when?

For now she must be patient,
and one day her time will come,
and you'll be there to take her hand,
and safely guide her home.


A Birthday Wish For Shalia

God gave a gift when she was born,
A person who loves, who cares, who touches each life she enters,
who sees a person's need and fulfills it.

A person who spends energy on others rather than herself,
and makes a difference in the world.

Don't misjudge her by her size,
For all we know she's larger than life.

You are so sweet and full of grace,
People won't forget your pretty face,
Always on the go...like the "Amazing Race"
No one can challenge your incredible pace.

Small and petite..that's what you are,
Attracts people near and far,
leads the way like the Northern Star,
Never fades like the energy of solar,

Always jovial and full of wonders,
Very creative unlike the mother,
Nothing in the world that can hinder,
From making my heart for you grow fonder.


Anak yang baik - Shalia

3 September 1988... at 3.00 a.m I was rushed to Hospital Ampuan Aminah, Johor Bharu, by my father & mother-in-laws. I was 24 only 24 then, and there I was...ready to give birth to my 3rd daughter. My hubby was in PULADA (Pusat Latihan Tentera Darat) - training.

Dok tengah kelam kabut daftar masuk, tetiba Atok realise yang kunci umah ilang!! So Atok
turun gi cari kunci yang ilang. Qima dan Qhida..Opah jaga kat kreta. Mean while, nurse check and I was 6cm dilated so nurse terus tolak mama masuk delivery room. 5 minutes.. Shadatul Shalia(shasha) pun lahir... syukur kepada Allah semuanya selamat.

Atok pulak..bila cari kunci tak jumpa..Atok pun naik balik ke maternity ward and waited eagerly outside tha delivery room. Atok mula suspen bila dengar org menjerit2 dlm delivery room tuh.
Atok pun..sekejap bangun..sekejap duduk..serba tak kena risaukan keadaan mama. Tengah Atok dok gelabah, keluar la nurse dari dalam delivery room tu.. "Eh! Pak Cik! Nape Pak Cik tunggu kat sini lagi? Anak Pak Cik dah di tolak ke bilik..." (bilik no brapa dah tak ingat).

"OOh tak bersalin lagi budak ni, orang lain rupanya yang menjerit2 tadi. Alhamdulillah" pikir Atok. So Atok pun terus gi bilik nak jumpa Mama. Sampai jer kat bilik, Atok terperanjat besar tengok Mama terbaring kat katil dan dalam katil baby sebelah katil mama tu ada baby!!!
"Laaa ko dah bersalin Na??" kata Atok terkejut. Atok terus qamatkan ko dan terus turun nak bagi tau Opah, Qima dan Qida kat kreta.

"Nanti tengahari kami datang balik. Ni tak tau lagi mcm mana nak masuk umah..kunci ilang" kata Atok.

Kecoh Atok..sian Atok.

3.67 kg, shaaha mmg baby yang tembam dan cute!! Tengahari tu, smua datang.... Atok, Opah, Papa, Qima dan Qida. Mama dah boleh balik tengahari tu. Papa uruskan dan kita smua balik umah kat Tmn Daya!!

Sha..kecik2 dulu ko mmg yg paling nakal!! Mmg selalu buat Mama marah.
Ko selalu jadi mangsa amarah ibu muda ini pada waktu itu...kena cili mulut..kena titik tangan dengan hammer...kena libas dgn getah paip..etc

Tapi sekarang tak lagi dah...
Ko lah anak yg baik, ambil berat tentang Mama dan smua ahli keluarga, sangat berdikari, suka dan ikhlas menolong Mama, Papa dll. Ko tak da Mama sunyi Sha....

Mama harap ko faham semua tindak tanduk mama pada ketika itu bukan kerana benci tapi bertujuan mendidik. Maafkan Mamaya Sha....

Ya Allah ya Tuhan ku sesungguhnya Shasha anak yang baik, Kau lindungilah dia setiap masa, peliharalah keimanannya, kehormatanya, kesihatanya, keselamatanya dunia dan akhirat. Semoga dipertemukan jodoh yg soleh dan menyayangi ko hingga ke akhir hayat. Semoga ko dpt capai cita2 dan berjaya dunia akhirat. Y Allah ya Tuhan ku...jadikanlah dia ahli syurga Mu ya Allah.....Amin ya Rabbal Alamin.

I was really shocked to learn that our buddy, during college, Shah,
passed away due to heart attack. It made me realize that life is so
fragile and death can do us apart anytime.

This tells me that I must spend the time given to us through the
best way I can. Enjoy life with the ones I luv don't take them
for granted. Appreciate what I have, be empathetic...feel for others.
This will make me a more sensitive and a better person.
Something to share..

Trust is often taken for granted when it comes to intimate relationships.
You worry about your partner cheating on you. Without trust in one another, intimacy cannot grow and your relationship can become stuck.

So, these are what i thought would help other than confiding to Him:

1. Let go of the past.

Almost every one of us has had a past incidents. Tune into your current situation and allow yourself to move on from those old hurts. Breathe and remind yourself to let go of the past and focus on what’s currently going on.

2. Be yourself.

Sometimes we hide habits, tendencies, even desires that are important to us because we don’t trust that our partner will approve of them. We undercut intimacy by keeping this barrier up to hide what we think won’t be loved. In effect, we don’t feel lovable as our true selves. Make it a goal to appreciate yourself. Chances are your love will be more accepting than you think.

3. Listen and understand.

Communicating is vital to everyone wanting to increase intimacy in a relationship. When situations come up that challenge your trust in the other person, stop and ask him or her questions about what appears to be happening. It is likely that your perceptions are not accurate. Listen with an open heart and allow yourself to understand what is going on for the other person.

These 3 ways can help you begin to turn a relationship weak in trust into one where strong trust fosters deeper intimacy. It starts with letting go, loving yourself, and listening with an open heart.


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